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I CAUGHT MY PARTNER MASTURBATING

by Helena Nista

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Published 25 Jul 2023

🔥MASTURBATION COACHING: https://helenanista.com/masturbation-coaching-online-course-men-women/ So, you've walked in on your partner masturbating, what to do? Should they be touching themselves when you're in a relationship together? Is it wrong? Is it unhealthy? And what does it mean for you and for your relationship together? Masturbating in a relationship is a tricky topic for a lot of couples. So make sure to watch my video till the end! --- 😍 Thank you for supporting my work with a small donation: - Patreon: https://patreon.com/helenanista - PayPal: https://paypal.me/helenanista --- 💕 My online courses: - TantricMastery for Men: https://helenanista.com/tantric-mastery-online-course/ - 0rgasmicEmpowerment for Women: https://helenanista.com/orgasmic-empowerment-for-women/ - TantricSex for Couples: https://helenanista.com/tantric-sex-for-couples/ - How to Pleasure Her: https://helenanista.com/how-to-pleasure-her-online-course/ - How to Pleasure Him: https://helenanista.com/how-to-pleasure-him-online-course/ - MasturbationCoaching: https://helenanista.com/masturbation-coaching-online-course-men-women/ - Manifesting with SexMagic: https://courses.helenanista.com.au/courses/manifesting-with-sex-magic/ - What Women Want: https://courses.helenanista.com.au/courses/what-women-want --- 🥰 My other resources: - my website: https://helenanista.com/ - my vlog: /channel/UCq9GnqoiylZ8zcKwZBD9FWg - my book: https://helenanista.com/legendary-lover-book/ --- 💋 My socials: - IG: https://www.instagram.com/helena_nista_/ - Fb: https://www.facebook.com/helenanista --- 🎶 MUSIC I use: https://www.epidemicsound.com/referral/usc1s1/ --- Chapters: 0:00 Intro 0:23 My own experience 2:33 What I would do now 4:45 Analyse your feelings 6:15 It's healthy & common 7:35 Both of you should do it 8:32 Mismatched libidos 8:50 Religious taboo 10:17 How do you do it? 12:01 Outro --- I CAUGHT MY PARTNER MASTURBATING

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@U2WB9 months ago Great post! I would say, from personal experience, that masturbating alone when you' re in a committed relationship can be the result of unfulfilled . ...Expand 9
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@NateHenry4059 months ago Huge thanks on this video and great job as always, we appreciate all this content you give us. 6
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@julioavalos29369 months ago Well i say join him or treasure what you see! 63
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@kirstypeake78059 months ago Me and my man are lucky to have a very open and supportive relationship alot of that is down to your wonderful advice we both feel things we never knew . ...Expand 15
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@KainzMusic9 months ago Anyone who expects their partner to never engage in self stimulation is living in a dream land. Might be a good discussion before cohabitation becomes part of the relationship. Telling the truth is important. 14
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@ajamucollins43959 months ago I would say that i am very creative and very imaginative and when i come across long periods of loneliness, i fill up myself by divulging into my ark of creativity. I thank you for bringing this up. 9
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@rhoads31209 months ago Joining in would be better than walking away, but at the same time, youre partner could be relieving stress from an experience they want to have with y . ...Expand 8
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@charlesforte64739 months ago Hi helena; i hope you' re doing well and having a wonderful evening. I guess i would try and think how i might react if the situation were reversed excellent video btw! Cf. ...Expand 8
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@rockyroll89 months ago My partner at the time and her best friend walked in on me. She didn' t get mad they helped me finish. 25
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@paulfrindle71449 months ago This is another excellent video. Putting aside any talk of a spanish inquisition regarding being caught masturbating ( there' is no doubt that finding . ...Expand 6
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@JohnSmith-pg2hq9 months ago Best youtuber forever just subscribed to your channel amazing content and personality and like how openminded you are. 1
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@droningharry9 months ago My partner has walked in on me many times over the years. I am home alone all day so i use the time to enjoy myself and masturbate. If she comes home and . ...Expand 8
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@brianbrino43109 months ago Well helena, why not approach him in your case and join the party and participate and enjoy! Maybe that would increase his love for you!
thank you for your great video! . 6
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@tmeyer20229 months ago When it became clear that our relationship was forming, i began to tell her my personalso that she would not be unaware. She, likewise, began to share herwith me also. So, you could say that we actual began communication before there could be surprises. ...Expand 3
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@michaelsylvester72729 months ago I 100 percent agree.
thanks sharing. 3
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@paulneave58059 months ago Yet another great post. As you say there' s nothing wrong with self pleasure. I do this quite often as i have a higher sex drive than my partner. I . ...Expand 19
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@markh519 months ago Instead of putting oneself in an even more uncomfortable situation by quickly and awkwardly turning away from the situation, why not just simply ask if bury those insecurities and trade them for some excitement. You can always talk about everything after you have helped your partner achieve the euphoric experience that they were fantasizing about in their head before you walked in on them. Just relax and try to have some with it. Who knows you might even be able to experience some euphoria of your own while helping out your partner. Just saying. ...Expand 3
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@davideart184 months ago After being in union with a person who was all about shaming my sexuality, i would not shame another person. Definitely talk with them about it. Joining in- absolutely if there is consent. 1
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@user-qr9eo1wo8y9 months ago The title, already sets a negative environment but understand your point. 3
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@santamariamaggiore29679 months ago Even though it' s all natural, it' s still embarassing, isn' t it?
best thing is when she surprises you in the shower doing it and she just joins in. 8
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@Onmysheet9 months ago Helena would you prefer
a: an unattractive guy who is charming, great in bed and funny?
or
b: a handsome guy who is needy, rubbish in bed and boring? 7
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@mistressofmisfits9 months ago Is this a common problem? I used to wish i would catch him in the act, for research purposes, of course; maybe this is why i am tragically alone idk. 7
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@MotownFreddy9 months ago Ive been walked in upon while pleasuring myself but she said nothingwe have been divorced years ago and i was frustrated after 8 years of no sexabsolutely none! now, in a different relationship, its now six or seven years of absolutely no sex life and ive still got the drive, despite my age. Shes had menopause and i dont know what her feelings are but she seems uninterested because despite having an intimate massage a few weeks ago, it never went beyond that
so, trying to use your suggestions to help me out. ...Expand 3
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@raymonkravagna2789 months ago I can safely say any time i' ve ever been in a relationship or married i' ve never watched pornography in my life or masturbated to it. I didn' t . ...Expand 6
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@johnmeowzer83339 months ago If i had a partner i' d be delighted if it happened. 8
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@michaelquinones35729 months ago Ask if he needs help would be a good thing to communicate. 4
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@jk-kr8jt9 months ago Give him or her a helping hand. It' s all pleasurable. 3
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@sircorkysriley49049 months ago Remember when my wife and i first met it was one of the first things we did together and are comfortable with it and still do today. Most people do it . ...Expand 4
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@dosstodd80149 months ago To me the perfect response would be to smile and ask can i give you a hand with that? Turning around would only tend to embarrass. 1
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@zetristan45259 months ago The question is whether he was sacredly worshipping it. 2
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@Soundtracks929 months ago I always join my partner or vice versa. 7
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@jamescampolo78248 months ago I would hope she gives me a hand and helps out somehow. If i was doing that alone, i was just waiting for her to get home. My wife would love to just finish it off. 1
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@frankryder93259 months ago Hi helena, im still living home mum and just me, i get busted all the time, she just pretends not to notice, so i atempt to hold off the moment and hide what im doing, im not sure what to do! 2
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@zetristan45259 months ago I don' t understand how any of your partners let you go! Or did youdump them all? For me, the voice and esprit are enough: we don' t even have to have sex. 4
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@davidbetteridge59569 months ago Agree like it, join together or lose your partner. 1
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@H.G6899 months ago If you don' t want to see your spouse masturbating, then give him the fantasy he wished to have with you, and the sky is the limit eventually. 1
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@TonyBee-sn8ik5 months ago The first thing that women need to know in understanding men, is we love, and enjoy maturbating! It' s who we are as men! 1
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@oskarumesh23949 months ago Masterbation is just a common thing in a relationship or in normal life. I think ninety percent men of this world would have died if they aren' t allowed . ...Expand 6
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@markberger57399 months ago You could of course join him & i bet it would be appreciated. 3
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@allenhampton10929 months ago If your partner saw you wouldn' it be appropriate to ask if there' s anything you could do to help? . 1
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@kirbyladd40029 months ago I would say, since we are totally comfortable in our sexuality is, may i join you or please let me help you. 2
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@astoriakid419 months ago Ask if they want help. Then~ if you can' t beat ' em - join them* encourage it*. 5
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@pigmaleon95799 months ago Ask him if the thought of you made him arise? 3
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@GeorgeMinton-jb8ky9 months ago If women have a problem with this then one of the ways to reduce or replace a man' s need to do this is to increase your sexual frequency with him. . ...Expand 1
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@pianoLee-sx9dx9 months ago Another great tutorial and have you always wanted to be a sexologist since you were little? Can you make a video on how to put on a condom and maybe how to tell if a girl is a virgin if this is possible? 2
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@waynecoy18419 months ago Helena didn' t you say oh my goodness am i ain' t enough for you and walk out.
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@Derrick-gs5em5 months ago Sometimes you have no other choice to do that when your wife is sick from cancer and she can. T help you. 1
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@markcdeyoung31189 months ago Baby you sure we' re innocent. Yep it' s healthy. I' ve had girlfriends that would do that a lot of times i would usually just join in. Or vice versa. 4
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@Cultofpersonality091294 months ago If the partner was doing their job i wouldnt need to. 1
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@joeerne3019 months ago What is the likelihood that he would walk in on her masturbating? It seems more likely when she walks in on him. Tia. 6
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@kimberleighphillips15569 months ago Is it healthy and common for your partner to only do this and not have sex with you, for 8 months and counting? 1
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@HeavyHaul519 months ago Join him or give him more so he doesn' t need to do that because he is well satisfied. Most woman won' t and make a big thing about it. 1
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@AlhajiKamara-mr9usm9 months ago If you are with your partner no need for thi. 2
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@lowyoyo99613 months ago Openly exploring masturbation together profoundly changed everyaspect of our sex life for the better, and it continues. Our inspiration was a book; . ...Expand 1
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@jamess50699 months ago Geez. Id love it if my partner even masturbated period. Never and i mean never. Sad but true. Ive tried to get her to listen to your videos to no avail.
i have been caught though. 2
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@NoName-zb1gm9 months ago Don' t keep your partner waiting for sex. Now if you want to have sex later he or she might be tapped out. But in that moment i hope it would arouse . ...Expand
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@myselfmeandi9 months ago It would be nice to have the right someone walk in on me every once in a while! 3
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@lakmeister9 months ago I nave never caught any woman playing in my time. But have got them to play in front of me. Its great to see. Its very smooth andit! 2
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@tomquirin42319 months ago Hi helena, new sub for ya here, i am a u. S. Marine vet here 93' to 97' active! Only have email here, would love to talk more, thanks n talk soon gurl > tom! 3
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@user-qr9eo1wo8y9 months ago Go put on your " house keeping" uniform and role play. 2
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@saradaprasadsahoo69224 months ago Rather than it would be good if u said him that may i help u.
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@greghayes91189 months ago Make him feel totally ashamed, belittle him, call his mother immediately, maybe grab a sharp knife and chase him out of the house, call the police.
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@abdulairashida44598 months ago How you make a man release without sex.
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@marekgalecki1429 months ago When guy has to masturbate it means that his partner does not give him enough attention. 2
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@Allan_aka_RocKITEman7 months ago @helenanista >> gt; great video. 1
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@ElektroBandit899 months ago I like the vast majority of what you said but i dont like your approach to just excuse yourself and leave. Im married, and if im masturbating, espec id="hidden34"ially if my wife is home, its not my first choice. Its because my needs arent being met. I would much rather her ask to finish me or join and masturbate with me. Anything other than leave me feeling weird. I couldnt possibly finish after that. ...Expand 4
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@MrBose-kz6mi9 months ago Didn' t you ask him to help him, that would be more comfortable, seems to me, if i should catch such a moment i would be inn to make it a happy end for both of us.
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@josephdemarco12489 months ago Yes join in @ joey bag of dounts peace love rock on out bye happy wesday night. 2