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Why Do YOU Get Jealous

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Published 17 Mar 2016

Why do people get jealous, what are the causes of our jealousy and most importantly, how can we stop being jealous? All of these questions about why we get jealous answered in this video. Subscribe: /c/allourquestions Jealousy is no joke. It can destroy relationships, break up families and in the worst cases it can even drive people to kill but what's going on? Playlist of videos about human emotions: /playlist/PLHM9ZNeD1eeONmQ0UuGRMwNfw751vDIox Experts believe in the case of heterosexual romantic and sexual relationships jealousy occurs because of an innate desire for a male to secure access to a prime mating partner. I also found it interesting that the things we get jealous over can vary based on our cultural or geographical backgrounds. For example, if you're born in one part of the world the things that make you jealous might not make you jealous if you were from another part of the world. Subscribe to All Our Questions: /c/allourquestions Check out my video tips channel: /user/NickNimmin Thanks for watching and remember to share this video about jealousy!

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    @walkertongdee7 years ago Hi Nick, another great video! I think jealousy is largely dependent on maturity and one’s understanding and management of their emotions. As one gets older hopefully they come to the understanding that jealousy is a negative human trait and they don’t get jealous anymore, or laugh their jealousy off like some inner joke on themselves.
    People often in error equate jealousy with envy; it’s not the same thing. Jealousy is seeing what someone else has and because you want it and don’t have it you exhibit some kind of childish tantrum, you don’t like that person and it is obvious to others why. Envy on the other hand is appreciation for what someone else has or admiration for their qualities, you like them.
    The solution to jealousy is to grow up and understand that you can often have what you want, the things and qualities that others have. All you have to do is work on achieving them and oftentimes the very people you would be jealous of will help you to get them if you show admiration instead of silly childish jealousy… Thai Sean
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    @Monoperty8 years ago So much great info packed into a short amount of time. Excellent!
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    @TCTGFAM6 years ago Jealousy in fact has its origin to a huge feeling of inferiority of the individual experiencing it. A person with a good sense of self esteem rarely feels jealousy...
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    @LanguagesWithJamie8 years ago Great video as always! Love the topics Nick keep up the great work!
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    @ChrisShouse018 years ago Love the facts and always interesting to look at pictures of brains lighting up! I knew dogs can become territorial and some think they are the Alpha in the tribe no matter how small they are but never equated it to jealousy! ...
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    @williamcfox8 years ago Nick, can I ask where you get your stock footage/photos? Are you paying royalties? It all looks very nice and professional (like your whole channel) Thanks for any info.
    -Will
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    @LegionOfWeirdos8 years ago Jealousy has always been one of my biggest turn offs, and yet somehow I myself used to be the very jealous type... By the time I met my wife, though, I'd completely dropped it somehow. She's said she found one of the most attractive things about me was that I didn't go into freakout mode if she went on a trip with friends to Vegas or something. She's part Latina and part Arab, so she'd previously dated a lot of Latin and Arab men, who apparently can be obnoxiously jealous. ...
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    @user-lo3ho3hq9e8 years ago Nice videos .. keep up the amazing work , I subscribed to this great channel.
    May I ask a question about this video .. what's mate retention tactics? can u explain it in few words m please? and the portion " You'll find interesting that a guy is likely to employ mate retention tactics aka being ????? Can you please tell more about this point? thank you in advance. waiting for you reply my friend Nick. ...
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    @BeingClaudee8 years ago Nick, I try not to be jealous....it's always made situations worst in the past. Hey, I gave you a shout out because I am enjoying your channel so much...but I called you Rick...sorry. Take care and have a nice weekend!!! ...
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    @tomatojoe54058 years ago amazing new video guys you should get more credit looks hard to make these great video's
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    @alex-tg9jo8 years ago usually everyone is better than me so I feel jealousy 1
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    @chgvfx95128 years ago hey. I would suggest a more in depth analysis. this was like reading the first paragraph on Wikipedia.
    more examples, theories and thoughts would be appreciated.
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    @Nemixx8 years ago Why are you so small for such good quality content lol? 2
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    @growinggreen86848 years ago I don't understand why you don't have more subscribers! I see the time and effort put into these videos. I truly believe that if you don't give up you reach great hights! Some YouTuber's that have millions of videos don't really try in their videos, but you do! Sometimes I see other videos and comments and think... YouTube is dead. But when I see your videos, they give me inspiration that there are great people out there that are just hidden behind the other big ones. I know you will become big soon! Just please don't give up! I won't give up! Not saying that you are quitting anytime soon, but I just want to tell you that some day... You will be the one with the 40 million subscribers... You can be that person!
    Love the videos! Keep on making more!
    -Growing Green!
    ...
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    @TJSinghVideos8 years ago great video sir.....and can i request u to make me logo for my channel and right now i can just thank u for that :)
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    @cooperjan94758 years ago I'm jealous of friends having more subscribers😂😂😂
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    @jayarise8 years ago Who do people get jealous?
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    @walkertongdee7 years ago Hi Nick, another great video! I think jealousy is largely dependent on maturity and one’s understanding and management of their emotions. As one gets older hopefully they come to the understanding that jealousy is a negative human trait and they don’t get jealous anymore, or laugh their jealousy off like some inner joke on themselves.
    People often in error equate jealousy with envy; it’s not the same thing. Jealousy is seeing what someone else has and because you want it and don’t have it you exhibit some kind of childish tantrum, you don’t like that person and it is obvious to others why. Envy on the other hand is appreciation for what someone else has or admiration for their qualities, you like them.
    The solution to jealousy is to grow up and understand that you can often have what you want, the things and qualities that others have. All you have to do is work on achieving them and oftentimes the very people you would be jealous of will help you to get them if you show admiration instead of silly childish jealousy… Thai Sean
    ...
  • @
    @Monoperty8 years ago So much great info packed into a short amount of time. Excellent!
  • @
    @TCTGFAM6 years ago Jealousy in fact has its origin to a huge feeling of inferiority of the individual experiencing it. A person with a good sense of self esteem rarely feels jealousy...
  • @
    @LanguagesWithJamie8 years ago Great video as always! Love the topics Nick keep up the great work!
  • @
    @ChrisShouse018 years ago Love the facts and always interesting to look at pictures of brains lighting up! I knew dogs can become territorial and some think they are the Alpha in the tribe no matter how small they are but never equated it to jealousy! ...
  • @
    @williamcfox8 years ago Nick, can I ask where you get your stock footage/photos? Are you paying royalties? It all looks very nice and professional (like your whole channel) Thanks for any info.
    -Will
  • @
    @LegionOfWeirdos8 years ago Jealousy has always been one of my biggest turn offs, and yet somehow I myself used to be the very jealous type... By the time I met my wife, though, I'd completely dropped it somehow. She's said she found one of the most attractive things about me was that I didn't go into freakout mode if she went on a trip with friends to Vegas or something. She's part Latina and part Arab, so she'd previously dated a lot of Latin and Arab men, who apparently can be obnoxiously jealous. ...
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    @user-lo3ho3hq9e8 years ago Nice videos .. keep up the amazing work , I subscribed to this great channel.
    May I ask a question about this video .. what's mate retention tactics? can u explain it in few words m please? and the portion " You'll find interesting that a guy is likely to employ mate retention tactics aka being ????? Can you please tell more about this point? thank you in advance. waiting for you reply my friend Nick. ...
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    @BeingClaudee8 years ago Nick, I try not to be jealous....it's always made situations worst in the past. Hey, I gave you a shout out because I am enjoying your channel so much...but I called you Rick...sorry. Take care and have a nice weekend!!! ...
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    @tomatojoe54058 years ago amazing new video guys you should get more credit looks hard to make these great video's
  • @
    @alex-tg9jo8 years ago usually everyone is better than me so I feel jealousy 1
  • @
    @chgvfx95128 years ago hey. I would suggest a more in depth analysis. this was like reading the first paragraph on Wikipedia.
    more examples, theories and thoughts would be appreciated.
  • @
    @Nemixx8 years ago Why are you so small for such good quality content lol? 2
  • @
    @growinggreen86848 years ago I don't understand why you don't have more subscribers! I see the time and effort put into these videos. I truly believe that if you don't give up you reach great hights! Some YouTuber's that have millions of videos don't really try in their videos, but you do! Sometimes I see other videos and comments and think... YouTube is dead. But when I see your videos, they give me inspiration that there are great people out there that are just hidden behind the other big ones. I know you will become big soon! Just please don't give up! I won't give up! Not saying that you are quitting anytime soon, but I just want to tell you that some day... You will be the one with the 40 million subscribers... You can be that person!
    Love the videos! Keep on making more!
    -Growing Green!
    ...
  • @
    @TJSinghVideos8 years ago great video sir.....and can i request u to make me logo for my channel and right now i can just thank u for that :)
  • @
    @cooperjan94758 years ago I'm jealous of friends having more subscribers😂😂😂
  • @
    @jayarise8 years ago Who do people get jealous?